Big, Round, Hefty…Sexy

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etnias_nahua_foto3Over the past year, I’ve lost some weight and coincidentally, the size of my local yoga classes has shrunk. Like these classes, my body shape has changed from that of a plump macaroon to something more like a banana. Hmmmm. While we might think that slender bodies are considered more attractive, the research shows that in our most natural state, human beings are actually drawn to plumper body types.

A recent NY Times article reported on the Matsigenka people (see photo) who lead a primitive, hunter-gatherer life in a remote part of Peru.  The Matsigenka population which was isolated from modern influences showed no preference for skinnier body types. While the Matsigenka population with exposure to modern society did in fact prefer the hard-bodied physique.  In other words, advertising and entertainment impress upon everyone the importance of hourglass shaped bodies…while in truth, our most primal self longs to squeeze another’s flesh.

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A wise one said, “The soul is placed in the body like a rough diamond, and must be polished, or the luster of it will never appear.” We spend countless resources attending to the body, while the soul cries for attention.  So if you really want to be authentic, next time you’re in yoga class, say to your teacher, “Hey, you look fat.” While on the surface it might be confusing and even cause a rift in your teacher-student relationship, deep down, their soul will thank you. Just trust me.

God knows a day governed by the soul is a day of heartfelt, honest communication; day of chocolate, sunshine, and Negro Modelo;  a day celebrating belly rolls and manboobs.  God knows a day governed by the soul is a rare day indeed.

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7 Responses to Big, Round, Hefty…Sexy

  1. Ilias May 6, 2010 at 12:50 pm #

    http://www.yeahdave.com – da mejor. Guardar va!

    Ilias

  2. MarkSpizer May 2, 2010 at 11:57 pm #

    great post as usual!

  3. Emma April 28, 2010 at 7:47 am #

    wait— are you saying that because you lost weight the class size has decreased?

  4. anna April 27, 2010 at 9:10 am #

    Hey – I’m also a plump but slenderizing yoga person… and I’m taking a dive and doing some photos soon. Check out my blog in a week or two :)

    Your post is great for me to read these few days before the shoot as I ponder “putting myself out there” as a non-ballet dancer super long limbed and lean person. Take care!

  5. student grants April 26, 2010 at 10:06 pm #

    Keep up the good work, I like your writing.

  6. yeahdave July 12, 2011 at 7:28 pm #

    Great to hear from you Gemma (((:

  7. yeahdave July 13, 2011 at 2:37 pm #

    Robb…great to hear from you…thx for checking out my blog!!

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